Childhood recollections by: Adeline Yen Mah
Publisher: Pearson Education Ltd.
First published: 1999
First educational edition: 2002
Source: Library, Ambo
University, Ethiopia
Courtesy: Ms. Deepsikha Saikia,
who lent me the book and patiently waited for long before I return.
17th century
Cinderella is an Italian. We change this notion while reading Adeline Yen Mah’s
‘Chinese Cinderella’ - a book that is not only an account of her childhood
miseries, but also a handbook on Chinese history, language and literature.
Mah’s self portrayal of her childhood agonies and stiff sessions of seclusion are
heart rendering. Rightly, she has dedicated the 1999-published book to ‘all
unwanted children’.
Adeline turns a Chinese
Cinderella once her father makes a second marriage and the couple begins making
an unfair distinction between the previous children and their own children. Soon
after giving birth to Adeline, her mother died. Father remarries. In her life
she couldn’t even see a photograph of her real mother. Consequently the little
child falls prey to a superstition. The child was believed to have bad blood that
must bring only ill fate to the family. This brought huge extortions and pain in
the life of a budding girl. Between 1941 and 1951, i.e. from the age of 4 to
14, she had more abominable things to recollect than adorable ones.
Constantly loving Aunt Baba, gracious
grandmother, Nai Nai and generous grandfather Ye Ye were shades of solace. Instead,
stepmother Niang and Father only sowed seeds of pain in the tender heart. Her
siblings were but miserably influenced by the malice spread by the parents.
Success, achievements and
celebrations are untold for a Cinderella, testifies Adeline’s life. Love, care
and consideration are exclusive rights of children, except of Adeline’s sort.
Scarce privileges and salubrious life experiences are only a mirage for
children like Adeline whom parents consider unwanted.
Cities of Tianjin, Shanghai, and
Hong Kong have contrast differences. But all these cities gave single bitter
experience for Adeline: secluded boarding life, pitifully uncared by any elder
from home. No letter, no egg, no special food, and no visitor – she had nothing
to expect from home. School for Adeline was thus a lone asylum of dreams and
pleasures – created by her and enjoyed by her.
During vacations, while she used to be the only girl unclaimed by
parents, empty dormitory beds looked like scary rows of tombs. Still, instead
of getting stuck by the dismay, the little girl spends her lonely hours in
libraries simply to be engulfed by King Lear-kind of Shakespeare or Sara
Crewe-kind of Frances Hodgson Burnett.
Prior to a play-writing
competition when a disinterested Adeline told “I’m afraid of losing”, Mother Louis suggested, “Anyone who enters has a chance. However, if you don’t enter, then you
certainly have destroyed your chance before you even begin”. When she was
dejected for not hearing for over six months from the play-writing competition
board, Mother Louisa tells her: “Be
patient. No news is good news. As long as you don’t hear, you can keep on
hoping […]”. As a child, Adeline had exceptional ability to identify and
imbibe from the elixir contained in such elderly words. She was blessed with a trait to understand
the ‘talisman power’ of such words. That must be the secret virtue that made
her emerge as the country’s first winner in an international English
play-writing competition at the age of 14 and later anchor herself on the
victory stands of life. This single aspect can alone motivate readers
regardless of age and sex.
While concluding her own Cinderella-like
experiences, she compares herself with a Chinese Cinderella named Ye Xian whose
legendary story was prevalent during Tang Dynasty of 7th and 8th
centuries. Ye Xian was loathed by her stepmother, but later emerged a shining
star fighting life with sheer determination, hard work and optimism. Through
her book Adeline introduces the same genre of phoenix inherent in her. The
Adeline Phoenix should certainly kindle a flame of determination among all
unwanted children in this modern world.
Adeline has made an admirable
selection from the piles of her childhood reminiscences. She could arrange
those memory blocks with a cherubic care to make an impressive ‘Chinese
Cinderella’. While turning page after page, readers receive an irrefutable soft
touch of a petite innocent girl. Line after line, she tweets charmingly the tale
of a girl child who was nobody, but later becomes somebody – story of a girl spinning
herself a life of dignity and delight against rudely abrasive abashments.
As readers finish reading ‘Chinese Cinderella’, they are gifted with a
treasure trove of optimism. A clear insight upon the China of 1940s and 1950s,
the wars won and lost and captivating aspects of Chinese calligraphy are just a
bonus.
- K.P. Sivakumar
Hi dear Paulo Gonzalves,
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting my blog and commenting. I tried to peep into your blog, but due to slow connection I was unlucky to enjoy the many photos there. I guess it's a travel-based one. Definitely I will go through its full contents soon and let you know. Good regards,
KP Sivakumar
Hi Sivakumar,
ReplyDeleteThank you for inviting me to your blog. Its really a nice work and helps to empower optimism and love in our minds. Hope this blog will continue to deliver such nice thoughts.Congrats and all the very best for your blog.
Warm regards,
Kannan
Hi dear Kannan! Thank you for reading the post and commenting. Yours words are truly encouraging. My heartiest regards and good wishes for you and Aathi! :-)
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